There is the glamour side of it which allows you to meet great variety of people with whom you simply can have a good time but there's also the sad side of it that drags you into a superficial and artificial world.
There is no such thing as liberty. You only change one sort of domination for another. All we can do is to choose our master.
Men and women should stay apart till their hearts grow gentle towards one...
You do have to change things as warfare changes.