To this day I've found that it doesn't matter what a guy looks like if he's really funny. His sense of humor makes him attractive. On the other hand you don't hear men saying 'No she's not pretty but is she ever funny!'
When you are content to be simply yourself and don't compare or compete everybody will respect you.
Knowing others is wisdom knowing yourself is Enlightenment.
Lately I did a film called All I Want for Christmas and it was well received....